When you’re in a new city, meeting women can seem like a daunting task. You may feel alone when you aren’t familiar with your surroundings, but remember, women are everywhere.
No matter where you are, on a typical night out, you will most likely find two types of men. The first one is the super-stressed out guy who spends most of his night asking every woman for a minute of their time. On the other hand, there is the sexy guy; the one who always seems to be having a good time.
In most cases, a woman will choose to go home with the second type of guy. So why only the sexy guy and not the other?
Is it his looks? Probably not.
Most men are average looking. Some may be less attractive than others, but a huge number are still relatively average. In addition, a woman can’t know if you’re rich or not unless you start showing off your wallet packed with money, so its not his financial status either.
So how does a woman decide?
A man’s presence is quite important. You must move and behave in the right manner. If not, you will be just another guy who walked into the venue.
Here are some of the things a typical guy does wrong…
A typical guy spends all of his time thinking about the coming weekend. Such behavior pretty much blinds him to a whole world of opportunities. When you’re in a new city, there is no perfect place or time to meet women. The law of attraction works like a machine that can’t be turned off. You must always be ready.
Most men focus all their thoughts on one night. This usually turns into anxiety. If you’re nervous, no woman will be attracted to you. They want a man who is confident, relaxed, and exciting.
Here are a few things you can do to increase your chances of meeting women when you’re out and about exploring your new surroundings.
1. Understand that you can meet women everywhere you go. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Open up your mind to all kinds of possibilities. It will definitely help you to stop acting desperate when you go out at night.
2. When you leave the house, your main goal should be to have fun. Don’t worry about hooking up. You will actually attract more women by not thinking about it. The trick is to shift your focus. You can’t be nervous if you’re having fun.
3. Women want to be with a man who is sure of himself and knows how to have fun. They didn’t put on their best outfit to go spend their time with a boring John Doe who spends his entire night circling like a vulture.
I cannot over emphasize that it is very important for you to have genuine fun. However, don’t do something crazy like taking off your shirt in the middle of the dance floor.
If you think that a girl might be attracted to you, just go and say hi. Ask her a few casual questions like what her name is or where she’s from. Just make sure that you keep it simple. There’s no need to over complicate things.
Now that you have a few tips, you can go have a wild night out and meet women. You might be shocked to find that things can actually work in your favor when you’re new to an area. After a few trials, you will become an unstoppable chick magnet even in a new city.